The Heptameron - Day 5 - Tale 46
The Heptameron - Day 5 - Tale 46 - the Young Man Beating his Wife
Summary of the Sixth Tale Told on the Fifth of the Heptameron
A Grey Friar named De Vale, being bidden to dinner at the house of the Judge of the Exempts in Angoulême, perceived that the Judge's wife (with whom he was in love) went up into the garret alone; thinking to surprise her, he followed her thither; but she dealt him such a kick in the stomach that he fell from the top of the stairs to the bottom, and fled out of the town to the house of a lady that had such great liking for those of his Order (foolishly believing them possessed of greater virtues than belong to them), that she entrusted him with the correction of her daughter, whom he lay with by force instead of chastising her for the sin of sloth-fulness, as he had promised her mother he would do. (1)
Tale 46 of the Heptameron
In the town of Angoulême, where Count Charles, father of King Francis,often abode, there dwelt a Grey Friar named De Vale, the same being helda learned man and a great preacher. One Advent this Friar preached inthe town in presence of the Count, whereby he won such renown that thosewho knew him eagerly invited him to dine at their houses. Among othersthat did this was the Judge of the Exempts (2) of the county, who hadwedded a beautiful and virtuous woman. The Friar was dying for love ofher, yet lacked the hardihood to tell her so; nevertheless she perceivedthe truth, and held him in derision.
After he had given several tokens of his wanton purpose, he one dayespied her going up into the garret alone. Thinking to surprise her, hefollowed, but hearing his footsteps she turned and asked whither he wasgoing. "I am going after you," he replied, "to tell you a secret."
"Nay, good father," said the Judge's wife. "I will have no secretconverse with such as you. If you come up any higher, you will be sorryfor it."
Seeing that she was alone, he gave no heed to her words, but hastenedup after her. She, however, was a woman of spirit, and when she saw theFriar at the top of the staircase, she gave him a kick in the stomach,and with the words, "Down! down! sir," (3) cast him from the top to thebottom. The poor father was so greatly ashamed at this, that, forgettingthe hurt he had received in falling, he fled out of the town as fastas he was able. He felt sure that the lady would not conceal the matterfrom her husband; and indeed she did not, nor yet from the Count andCountess, so that the Friar never again durst come into their presence.
To complete his wickedness, he repaired to the house of a lady whopreferred the Grey Friars to all other folk, and, after preaching asermon or two before her, he cast his eyes upon her daughter, who wasvery beautiful. And as the maiden did not rise in the morning to hearhis sermon, he often scolded her in presence of her mother, whereuponthe latter would say to him—"Would to God, father, that she had sometaste of the discipline which you monks receive from one another."
The good father vowed that if she continued to be so slothful, he wouldindeed give her some of it, and her mother earnestly begged him to doso.
A day or two afterwards, he entered the lady's apartment, and, notseeing her daughter there, asked her where she was.
"She fears you so little," replied the lady, "that she is still in bed."
"There can be no doubt," said the Grey Friar, "that it is a very evilhabit in young girls to be slothful. Few people think much of the sinof sloth, but for my part, I deem it one of the most dangerous there is,for the body as for the soul. You should therefore chastise her for it,and if you will give me the matter in charge, I will take good care thatshe does not lie abed at an hour when she ought to be praying to God."
The poor lady, believing him to be a virtuous man, begged him to bekind enough to correct her daughter, which he at once agreed to do, and,going up a narrow wooden staircase, he found the girl all alone in bed.She was sleeping very soundly, and while she slept he lay with her byforce. The poor girl, waking up, knew not whether he were man or devil,but began to cry out as loudly as she could, and to call for help to hermother. But the latter, standing at the foot of the staircase, criedout to the Friar—"Have no pity on her, sir. Give it to her again, andchastise the naughty jade."
When the Friar had worked his wicked will, he came down to the lady andsaid to her with a face all afire—"I think, madam, that your daughterwill remember my discipline."
The mother thanked him warmly and then went upstairs, where she foundher daughter making such lamentation as is to be expected from avirtuous woman who has suffered from so foul a crime. On learning thetruth, the mother had search made everywhere for the Friar, but he wasalready far away, nor was he ever afterwards seen in the kingdom ofFrance.
"You see, ladies, with how much security such commissions may be givento those that are unfit for them. The correction of men pertains to menand that of women to women; for women in the correction of men would beas pitiful as men in the correction of women would be cruel."
"Jesus! madam," said Parlamente, "what a base and wicked Friar!"
"Say rather," said Hircan, "what a foolish and witless mother to be ledby hypocrisy into allowing so much familiarity to those who ought neverto be seen except in church."
"In truth," said Parlamente, "I acknowledge that she was the mostfoolish mother imaginable; had she been as wise as the Judge's wife, shewould rather have made him come down the staircase than go up. But whatcan you expect? The devil that is half-angel is the most dangerous ofall, for he is so well able to transform himself into an angel of light,that people shrink from suspecting him to be what he really is; and itseems to me that persons who are not suspicious are worthy of praise."
"At the same time," said Oisille, "people ought to suspect the evil thatis to be avoided, especially those who hold a trust; for it is better tosuspect an evil that does not exist than by foolish trustfulness to fallinto one that does. I have never known a woman deceived through beingslow to believe men's words, but many are there that have been deceivedthrough being over prompt in giving credence to falsehood. Therefore Isay that possible evil cannot be held in too strong suspicion by thosethat have charge of men, women, cities or states; for, however good thewatch that is kept, wickedness and treachery are prevalent enough, andthe shepherd who is not vigilant will always be deceived by the wiles ofthe wolf."
"Still," said Dagoucin, "a suspicious person cannot have a perfectfriend, and many friends have been divided by suspicion."
"If you know any such instance," said Oisille, "I give you my vote thatyou may relate it."
"I know one," said Dagoucin, "which is so strictly true that you willneeds hear it with pleasure. I will tell you, ladies, when it is thata close friendship is most easily severed; 'tis when the security offriendship begins to give place to suspicion. For just as trust in afriend is the greatest honour that can be shown him, so is doubt of hima still greater dishonour. It proves that he is deemed other than wewould have him to be, and so causes many close friendships to be brokenoff, and friends to be turned into foes. This you will see from thestory that I am minded to relate."
TALE XLVI.(B).Concerning a Grey Friar who made it a great crime on the part of husbands to beat their wives. (4)
In the town of Angoulême, where Count Charles, father of King Francis,often abode, there dwelt a Grey Friar named De Vallès, (52) the samebeing a learned man and a very great preacher. At Advent time this Friarpreached in the town in presence of the Count, whereby his reputationwas still further increased.
It happened also that during Advent a hare-brained young fellow, who hadmarried a passably handsome young woman, continued none the less torun at the least as dissolute a course as did those that were stillbachelors. The young wife, being advised of this, could not keep silenceupon it, so that she very often received payment after a different anda prompter fashion than she could have wished. For all that, she ceasednot to persist in lamentation, and sometimes in railing as well; whichso provoked the young man that he beat her even to bruises and blood.Thereupon she cried out yet more loudly than before; and in a likefashion all the women of the neighbourhood, knowing the reason of this,could not keep silence, but cried out publicly in the streets, saying—
"Shame, shame on such husbands! To the devil with them!"
By good fortune the Grey Friar De Vallès was passing that way andheard the noise and the reason of it. He resolved to touch upon it thefollowing day in his sermon, and did so. Turning his discourse to thesubject of marriage and the affection which ought to subsist in it, hegreatly extolled that condition, at the same time censuring those thatoffended against it, and comparing wedded to parental love. Among otherthings, he said that a husband who beat his wife was in more danger, andwould have a heavier punishment, than if he had beaten his father or hismother.
"For," said he, "if you beat your father or your mother you will be sentfor penance to Rome; but if you beat your wife, she and all the women ofthe neighbourhood will send you to the devil, that is, to hell. Now lookyou what a difference there is between these two penances. From Rome aman commonly returns again, but from hell, oh! from that place, there isno return: nulla est redemptio" (6)
After preaching this sermon, he was informed that the women were makinga triumph of it, (7) and that their husbands could no longer controlthem. He therefore resolved to set the husbands right just as he hadpreviously assisted their wives.
With this intent, in one of his sermons he compared women and deviltogether, saying that these were the greatest enemies that man had, thatthey tempted him without ceasing, and that he could not rid himself ofthem, especially of women.
"For," said he, "as far as devils are concerned, if you show them thecross they flee away, whereas women, on the contrary, are tamed byit, and are made to run hither and thither and cause their husbandscountless torments. But, good people, know you what you must do? Whenyou find your wives afflicting you thus continually, as is their wont,take off the handle of the cross and with it drive them away. You willnot have made this experiment briskly three or four times before youwill find yourselves the better for it, and see that, even as the devilis driven off by the virtue of the cross, so can you drive away andsilence your wives by virtue of the handle, provided only that it be notattached to the cross aforesaid."
"You have here some of the sermons by this reverend De Vallès, of whoselife I will with good reason relate nothing more. However, I will tellyou that, whatever face he put upon the matter—and I knew him—he wasmuch more inclined to the side of the women than to that of the men."
"Yet, madam," said Parlamente, "he did not show this in his last sermon,in which he instructed the men to ill-treat them."
"Nay, you do not comprehend his artifice," said Hircan. "You are notexperienced in war and in the use of the stratagems that it requires;among these, one of the most important is to kindle strife in the campof the enemy, whereby he becomes far easier to conquer. This mastermonk well knew that hatred and wrath between husband and wife mostoften cause a loose rein to be given to the wife's honour. And when thathonour frees itself from the guardianship of virtue, it finds itself inthe power of the wolf before it knows even that it is astray."
"However that may be," said Parlamente, "I could not love a man who hadsown such division between my husband and myself as would lead even toblows; for beating banishes love. Yet, by what I have heard, they [thefriars] can be so mincing when they seek some advantage over a woman,and so attractive in their discourse, that I feel sure there would bemore danger in hearkening to them in secret than in publicly receivingblows from a husband in other respects a good one."
"Truly," said Dagoucin, "they have so revealed their plottings in alldirections, that it is not without reason that they are to be feared;(8) although in my opinion persons who are not suspicious are worthy ofpraise."
"At the same time," said Oisille, "people ought to suspect the evilthat is to be avoided, for it is better to suspect an evil that does notexist than by foolish trustfulness to fall into one that does. For mypart, I have never known a woman deceived by being slow to believemen's words, but many are through being too prompt in giving credenceto falsehood. Therefore I say that possible evil cannot be too stronglysuspected by those that have charge of men, women, cities or states;for, however good may be the watch that is kept, wickedness andtreachery are prevalent enough, and for this reason the shepherd who isnot vigilant will always be deceived by the wiles of the wolf."
"Still," said Dagoucin, "a suspicious person cannot have a perfectfriend, and many friends have been parted by bare suspicion."
"If you should know any such instance," thereupon said Oisille, "I willgive you my vote that you may relate it."
"I know one," said Dagoucin, "which is so strictly true that you willhear it with pleasure. I will tell you, ladies, when it is that closefriendship is most readily broken off; it is when the security offriendship begins to give place to suspicion. For just as to trust afriend is the greatest honour one can do him, so is doubt of him thegreatest dishonour, inasmuch as it proves that he is deemed other thanone would have him to be, and in this wise many close friendships arebroken off and friends turned into foes. This you will see from thestory that I am now about to relate."
This is the Heptameron of Marguerite de Navarre
Other Sites: CruikshankArt.com · Dante's Inferno · QuoteMonger.com · Canterbury Tales ·
This site is created by the Heptameron Information Society.
Translate This Webpage:
Site Maps: URL List | XML Site Map | ROR